I’ve decided to make this a separate page that people can refer to before commenting on posts that they may find offensive. This is an atheist site, my opinions are from an atheist point of view so it is inevitable that some people will find most of these views offensive. If anything I say offends you and you wish to make a point you are more than welcome to do so by leaving a comment, or you can move on and make a note not to come back here again. I will not censor comments; everyone is entitled to their point of view, everyone has the right to be critical of ideas and has the right to say so.
Before I go onto explain why I am an atheist, I’d just like to dispel some common myths about what atheism is.
Myth: Atheism is a religion.
An atheist is someone who does not believe in the existence of gods. Atheists are not an organised group. We don’t belong to an atheist church, there is no set doctrine that we follow. There are people such as Richard Dawkins, Daniel Dennett, Sam Harris, and Christopher Hitchens (to name a few) who speak out against religion. it doesn’t mean that all atheists agree with everything they say – we do not see them as “prophets” of atheism, nor do we cite their writings as “gospel”.
Myth: Atheists are immoral.
This is one of the most annoying comments I get. I do not need to believe in a god to be a good, moral person. Humanity has the capacity for great good and great evil, it amazes me that people are so quick to credit imaginary beings ( god or satan) for the greatness or wickedness of humankind, it’s just a convenient way for them to abdicate their responsibility.
Myth: Atheists are responsible for hundreds and thousands of deaths throughout history.
This is another oft repeated myth, usually Nazism and Communism are cited in this argument. This is absolute nonsense, you cannot confuse political ideology with atheism. While it is true that some political dictators may have been atheists, many were not. Hitler was a catholic, although he may not have been a practising catholic, his speeches and writings often made reference to god. Stalin’s purges were politically motivated; and the Roman emperors who persecuted the christians believed in a pantheon of gods. No, if any one thing is to blame for most of the horror visited on humanity, it is religion, all religions.
Myth: What if you’re wrong and there is a god in heaven.
If a real heaven did exist, and for some reason a god chose who went there and who didn’t, and if that god is a good and noble being, I would like to think that he would judge me for my value as a human being, and not for my belief in him. If that god was omnipotent, omnipresent, and omniscient; I would say, “You should have known.”
Myth: Don’t you care what happens to you after you die?
No, I’ll be dead, gone, I’ll cease to exist. From observing other organisms – and like it or not, that’s exactly what we are – my body will rot and decompose to nothing. I do not need to be comforted by fairy tales of a happy afterlife or the possibility of returning in another lifetime to “learn” lessons in order to achieve enlightenment. I live my life knowing how extraordinarily lucky I am to have been born, and that there is only one chance – here and now.
There are many reasons why I became an atheist. The most obvious one is that there is no evidence. There is simply no more evidence for Jehovah than there is for Mithra, Isis or Zeus. Christians find no reason to believe that any of these gods exist, so they do not believe in them. For the same reason, I do not believe in Jehovah, or any of the other gods I mentioned. God himself is more than welcome to share an honest conversation with me. Until he does, I have no reason to trust that anyone is a reliable spokesman for any god. Another reason is the role that women play in religion. When confronted by the argument that women are treated as second class or as objects with no real opinion, most religions will tell you that women are treated as equals and are revered, yeah, right – that’s why we see so many women priests, bishops, popes, rabbis, mullahs, etc. Surely a caring, loving and tolerant god would recognise that all humans are equal and treat them as such. I cannot follow any church that actively works to hide crimes committed by it’s priests and who, when caught, refuses to prosecute or eject the guilty. I cannot follow any church leader who doesn’t practise what he preaches. I most certainly cannot follow any religion that actively tries to stop the teaching of proven science facts in favour of nonsensical, unproven, biblical stories. I cannot follow a religion that bans people from it’s churches based on a person’s sexuality, race, or gender.
As I’ve said more than once on this blog; atheists don’t just wake up one day and decide to be atheists. Most of us have ended up here after searching through the various religions after a long time. From my personal experience I have found that my questions were never satisfactorily answered. Telling me that “god said so” or “it says so in the bible” is not an answer; telling me that I don’t have enough faith, is not an answer either.
Instead I choose to follow a path of critical thinking, reasoning, and science. I do not claim that science has all the answers, it doesn’t – the difference is that science continues to search for answers, even when previously held theories are proven wrong.
This blog is not only about religion and atheism, I have many other interests and will post my opinions about them too. I strive to back up my statements with research and I encourage you to follow any links I use in my posts.





Hello Again Dear Skeptic Blacksheep,
I hope you had a nice Festive Season and a good break. I notice that you haven’t posted for a while and hope everything is alright with you.
I’ve been meaning to respond to your “Why I Am An Atheist” post, but regretfully, haven’t had the time. I may do it in parts instead, answering your statements one by one – it should encourage me to keep my posts short, for a change.
In the meantime, I’ve come across an article you might find interesting. I know I did. It’s written by Matthew Parris, a British journalist who is an atheist. He’s often smug and predictable, but he’s also smart and funny and sardonic. On a trip to Africa he analyses Christianity’s effect on Africa and the Africans, and compares the lives of the Christians he meets with the alternative. Pretty impressive and open minded which is refreshing.
As a South African, you may find that it resonates with some of your experiences … I’m African too and I certainly “recognised” some of what he describes. Here’s the link.
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/columnists/matthew_parris/article5400568.ece?Submitted=true
I must add an observation though – and hope it doesn’t ruin the article for you. Matthew notices and describes a certain “attitude” among the Christian people he meets in the various countries he visits. He calls them “different”. The reason this point stands out for me, is because I believe that this is one of the biggest sources of difficulty atheists have with Christianity. Christians know that they become “changed” when they allow the Holy Spirit to work in them, and through them. For them it’s a real transformative experience. It changes them. For a very few Christians the change is immediate and radical, but for most it is a gradual, lifelong process of transformation, often with many setbacks. Unfortunately, atheists in general, don’t believe in the Holy Spirit and dismiss it outright as another delusion of weak minds, and therein lies the rub. The Holy Spirit is only effective when it is met by an accepting faith. To experience it you first have to believe in it. Catch 22, isn’t it? Nevertheless, it’s interesting that Matthew noticed “it” even though he’s not able to understand it.
Anyway, I hope you find the article interesting, and perhaps you’d care to share it with your atheist friends.
Best regards,
Filipe de Melo
mr. atheist:
we are the same one way or the other although this is my first time to accidentally got into this site of yours. im amazed, im not alone…
Oh please understand its not too late to be saved from burning and horrible eternal torture.
God loves you but he will watch your suffering if you do not realise that to love Satan is to ensure your damnation.
Just surrender to the love of Jesus and you will be saved.
Continue to deny and Christ will not weep for you – he will only look after the Elect at his feet who worship Him humbly and in fear of being cast down to join you in fire and acid.
Sam,
Your plea is truly tempting… however, we atheists have simply become addicted to the taste of roast baby, as well as the other perquisites of atheism. High on that list of perks is not voluntarily listening to crazy, wishful threats of a magic man in the sky who loves us sooooo much that he will lock us in his basement for eternity with (other) psychopathic monsters who get off on red-hot poker-buggery.
So, thanks, but no thanks.
Dear Blacksheep,
I enjoyed reading your comments and I was perhaps not horrified by this programme by Gary Mannnion but very disappointed, I am from the otherside of your fence as I work as a Spiritualist Healer. I have done this for the past eight years. This programme does not represent all healers. I have a theory that if you are given a gift freely then you should share it freely. It was the money thing that sat very uncomfortably with me. Everyone has a right to their own opinion and I believe that God is a humanitarian. At our church if anyone comes in for healing there is a donation plate placed discreetly no sign saying donation. If people put in pound if they can afford it fine. If they have no money thats fine to. The donations cover heating etc of the church. none of the healers are paid. We abide by our code of conduct and the law. Even though I am a spiritualist I constantly questions things about my own religion but never my own faith. When people start to force their opinions on religion down peoples throat thats when the trouble starts. You only have to switch on the tv these days to see politics, poverty, religon and all the different traumas that life can bring about. I am 44 now and have had 4 real good sightings of survival return. They are my own experience and personal to me. I would not expect anyone to believe me as I always think why should they. It was my experience not theirs I cannot expect people to be convinced by something I have seen when they haven’t viewed it. I always think of the song by john lennon imagine. Wouldn’t it just be real heaven if the world was at peace. Religon for me becomes a problem when it becomes cult like or people try to seek celebrity status through it and indeed a wealthy life style. In Spiritualism to I often feel like well not a blacksheep but definately a sheep with a big hint of grey. In any religon it all comes down to the people who are involved in it. the basis of religon is god and love. So many people can preach it words are easy to say. Its the practice that makes the difference helping others, kindness to animals etc and of course realising that you are a human being and we are all flawed but if we were not flawed we would not learn anything. Here and now is very important and how we learn from our mistakes sharing our experiences thoughts and views but never in a way for me that would offend anothers opinion. I always enjoy listening to other people I believe you can always learn something even if you don’t agree with everything they say.
Kind Regards
Mabel
My response to you comments:
Myth: Atheism is a religion.
Reply: Yes it it. You are your own God. You believe in yourself and follow yourself. If it smells and looks like religion then it is religion.
Myth: Atheists are immoral.
Reply: Yes they are. All people on earth born from a man and woman (everyone) are immoral. Without exception. No one is good all the time. No one.
Myth: Atheists are responsible for hundreds and thousands of deaths throughout history.
Reply: Yes they are. Read your own comments again and drop out the bull. Hitler was not a catholic. Get a clue. Every people group on earth is responsible for hundreds and thousands of killings at various points in history. (See previous point)
Myth: What if you’re wrong and there is a god in heaven.
Reply: You had your chance. You heard the ‘good news’ (You committed sins deserving death. But Jesus stood in your place and took the penalty for you). You either accept and are saved. Or reject it and are screwed. Noth in this life – but the next – according to Jesus.
Myth: Don’t you care what happens to you after you die?
Reply: You’ve never been enduringly dead. I wouldn’t even count it if were ‘medically dead’ and then revived. You haven’t been there. You don’t know. I haven’t been to Italy. I can look at Google and ask other people. ie. You can ask people who have been there. Your limited to only person who has been to ‘death’ – Jesus. Pay attention to what he says or don’t pay attention. Although I’m certain he said there would be a different consequence according to how you respond.
But do you have any time left to respond?
*sigh*
Atheism is NOT a religion. I don’t believe that your god, or any other gods for that matter, exists. There is no set dogma that atheists follow, no atheist bible, etc, etc. I do NOT believe that I am a god – that’s such a stupid thing to say.
So, you cannot behave without the 10 commandments or a god watching over you? You cannot control yourself without gods laws? Do you follow all gods laws as laid out in the bible? Maybe I just have more self control than you do, because I’m quite capable of knowing what is right and wrong without an imaginary sky fairy telling me what to do.
You don’t know your history, do you?
Hitler was a lifelong member of the Roman Catholic Church who led a predominantly Protestant political party and country. A 1939 poll showed Germany was 54 percent Protestant, 40 percent Catholic, 3.5 percent god-believers (unchurched but not atheist) and 1.5 percent unbelievers.
In the 1933 election that put Hitler into power, Germany probably was more Protestant. The Catholics increased after he took over Austria. The Nazi Party was about two-thirds Protestant, one-third Catholic, overwhelmingly church-goers. Voting statistics show Hitler probably got about 80 percent of the Protestant vote, with a Catholic minority. He got Catholic support only after his Vatican Concordat.
Oh, and Hitler repeatedly denounced atheism as the greatest threat to Germany, the cause of its worst problems (atheist immorality) and vowed to destroy atheism. Historically, Christians considered Jews to be atheists (denying divinity of Jesus). More broadly, Hitler and his supporters made it clear that he was out to destroy church-state separation (atheism), communism, political liberalism, freethinkers, and, behind them all, the perceived ultimate source of atheism, Jews. If you listen to Hitler’s speeches. you’ll see that religion is mentioned frequently.
I suppose you blame the troubles in Ireland on Atheism, as well as the Crusades, and the Inquisition,…..all the fault of Atheists in your opinion?
What if I’m not a Christian, what if I were Muslim, Hindu or Buddhist, what then? What if I don’t want to follow Jesus, but rather Mohammed, Ganesh or Thor……would I still be damned? I did not ask for anyone to take my place for anything, I am responsible for my actions alone.
I don’t believe that your version of Jesus existed, see here, so I don’t really care what he supposedly had to say about heaven or anything else. There are no texts attributed to a man named Jesus, everything we know about him is hearsay, and written at least 50 years after his supposed crucifixion.
So to conclude, would I rather believe in the creation of the Earth in 6 days, talking snakes, a worldwide deluge (for which there is no evidence), a virgin birth, and a god who would damn me to eternal pain and suffering on a whim – or do I choose to follow what reason and evidence shows me?
I believe I made the right choice.
Geezer
You’re right in that all groups have been responsible for atrocities. And, yes Stalin was an atheist. But atheism isn’t an ideology, dogma, religion or philosophy so it is wrong to say atheism itself (unlike Christianity, Islam, Communism, etc) is responsible for the killings.
Dear Skeptic Blacksheep,
Imagine my surprise, upon my return from holiday, at finding automated email messages from your blog in my inbox. From what I remember, I did not put myself on your blog’s mailing list.
I stopped frequenting your blog last year as the tone got pretty rabid as you and many of your posters obviously have axes to grind with religion in general and Catholics in particular. I found it impossible to have difficult and serious debates in your public forum, for all the posturing that goes on. In other words; a waste of my time. So much for “open minds”…
Regretfully, I see that the tone of this blog has not improved one iota – and if anything, it has become even more militant. A platform built on prejudice and arrogance. No learning goes on. I have no wish to be continuously exposed to the stupid, infantile, drivel that is vomited up onto my screen from this blog, so, if you’d be so kind, please remove me from your automated reply service.
I will continue to pray for you – and no, no need to tell me stop, or that you don’t believe in prayer, or that you don’t need/want it or that I’m wasting my time or whatever. I’m not doing it for your sake, but for mine.
Filipe De Melo
Filipe, I do not have a mailing list – you must have clicked a box asking for you to be alerted to a response to one of your many posts. I will look into how to get you off of it as I have no idea where or how to remove you from the automated reply service.
Pray for me if you like, that’s your choice.
I have to say thank you Skeptic Black Sheep for writing this. I really enjoyed reading this.
I once a followed Christianity (man made religion), not of my own free will might I add. Atheists are not necessarily immoral, I have many Atheist friends who have morals like myself or that of any self proclaimed good hearted loving Christian. At least if we do want to be immoral we aren’t going to keep saying that ‘we are children of God and we are forgiven’. I have met many many many Christians or Roman Catholics who follow God and they are as “immoral” as the rest of us. So get off your pedestals people, you’re no better than the rest of us, just a little more hypocritical. The only difference is if we are in their eyes being immoral, we aren’t hiding behind a title to make us feel good.
I personally enjoying standing on my own two feet and relying on myself when there’s a problem at hand. To rely on something that is unseen is childish, when you should be relying on yourself for your own problems. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong to hope. Hope that a person doesn’t die from cancer, hope that you are able to keep your job when people are getting cut. But you still need to rely on yourself to make things happen. That’s your own decision.
But once again thank you Skeptic Black Sheep, glad to see there’s someone who’s as skeptic like the rest us. Keep writing, I really enjoy it.
DoesNotBelieve
I agree! And, thank you for your kind words.
I accidentaly found your blog while I wanted to find info on 2012 (Im a history buff). I noticed your athiest page before I exited an I said “Ah, I’ll read it”.
Well instead of me going into detail about me an what my beliefs are an blah , blah , blah.
Basically I just wanted to say it was an interesting read and I’m glad I fully read it. I wasn’t 100% on the true meaning of an athiest an it’s unfortunate that saying that word is kinda taboo to most.
The thing I dont like about athieism is we all just vanish like a robot or just like a T.V being turned off. But, not liking something doesnt mean its not true either. I just hope for the best when our times do come.
It’s to bad most people I know can’t even follow 1/2 of what you typed on here but hopefully some will seek knowledge like I have.
Take care.
I filled in the required blocks I just hope I dont receive any ad’s or anything else.
If you do want to reply that would be more then acceptable.
Hi Mr. Skye A.Bellantoni
Thank you for your comment and for taking the time to read what I have to say, it is a pity that many people don’t take the time to read or listen to what atheists have to say, we aren’t a bad bunch – really.
With regard to your comment about not liking atheism because we will end up being turned off like a robot or a tv; I don’t see it that way at all. For me, it’s about living my life to the fullest and trying to make a difference to my environment while I’m here than trying to make a petty, tempremental god happy in the hope that he may give me eternal life. For me it’s enough to know that my children and grandchildren will remember me.